How do you convince your bf that plastic surgery won’t change anything?
told my boyfriend when a little before I started college that once I graduated my present to myself would be a total plastic make-over of sorts. I worked my booty off through college (getting knocked up 1/2 way through too) and right now I’m 23 got my masters in chem and am making MEGA money.
When I got with my bf I was 60lbs overweight and after the baby I managed to finally shed it off. But lets just say my boobs didn’t survive the weight loss and breast feefing and now sag like a cows utters. My breasts like the other things I want to fix, never really got me down b/c I kept telling myself that once I graduated I’d earned myself getting a little work done.
Well I’m done and have been done for a few months (I already saved up k) and still pay the rent etc… I’ve already had my consultations with the dr and now my bf is PISSED. He thinks I’m going to spend my money foolishly but I’ve wanted this stuff done for YEARS. I want to look as perfect as I can b/c I went my whole life being the ugly fat girl and losing weight and feeling pretty is something i want to do for ME. I want my breasts lifted and bigger, a nice ghetto booty, smaller more elegant nose and lips a bit fuller.
So far I’ve only fixed up my skin with cellulite removal, microdermabrasions, laser hair removal and my bf definately didn’t mind that. He thinks the hottest celebrity around is Kim Kardashian for f*cks sake! How much more plastic can you get?! Her body and face are the posterchild for plastic surgery (THAT AIN’T NATURAL)
I’ve already planned out what I want and it will be pricy but I think I deserve it. How do I get him to stop freaking out!? I’ve been with him for almost 10 years and have a kid! It’s not like I’m trying to attract guys (i have too many clingy annoying men in my life I do not need another). Its for me and I suppose kind of for him to look at OBVIOUSLY.
I think what is also a factor is that he makes min wage and I earn what he earns in a full day in one hr. He thinks blowing 25k on the way you look is a waste, but hes living comfy on my money so I don’t know why he is crying.
How do you convince your bf that plastic surgery won’t change anything, or that you DO deserve it, or even though its pricey you are PAYING for it. I really dont understand why he is so upset when I told him yrs ago!
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You tell him that he can like you the way you are, or fuck off. Do not let him try to make you do that. There are a lot of risks, and you will never look the same after. And most people look fake after. Do what makes you happy.
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be like "Nike" and just do it =)
well it WILL change what you look like drastically, however it wont change who you are as a person.
Its not what your bf wants its what you want so go GIRL!
well plastic surgery does change a lot,
just tell him about all the fine a** he is going to get if he lets you have the surgery
I have to agree with him. The only reason women get plastic surgery is to be more bangable to guys which more than likely means you will eventually cheat on him or leave him. I wouldn’t let my wife get it either. Maybe you two can break up and you can find your own Ken doll to get cut with you.
go easy on the poor guy, this is a sign that he reaaaly loves u and cares for u, plus he likes u already the way u are so wats the point in wasting money, if he likes u the way u are then so should u
ur obsession with with plastic surgery makes you sound insecure. unless you have some hideous thing on ur body i WOULD stay away from it.
I don’t think its an issue of money being wasted. He probably likes the way you are. If you have plastic surgery it is your choice, but just keep in mind even though to you, you think you are becoming more "perfect", to him you might be becoming less perfect if you have this stuff done to you.
OMG! if anyone deserces that plastic surgery, you do! i mean it’s your money and you have been working so hard and you deserve it! i’m thinking that he might be afraid of what other guys will think of you and that’s why he’s mad. Also it is kinda good that he thinks its a bad idea because that means he thinks you are gorgeous. But overall it’s your money and your body and YOU decide what happens to it!
Just ask him if he really wants to be a calf? LOL..
I think you deserve it unless he is totally comfy with you and your body, then there is no need for all this. Just work out..to loose the weight the facial surgery is unnecessary and most people always end up looking work. I think all you need is a boob job. And explain that if he doesn’t like the after results then he can leave.. You know he won’t
You cant convince him just do it and prove him wrong… That’s what I did. He may just be insecure as you said you already make the money and this would just add to it. You only have one life and DONT live with regret bc you didn’t do something that you want to do for yourself!
PS: I love Kim Kardashian and it is natural you can tell by seeing all her childhood pics!
Don’t ask your boyfriend’s permission and don’t explain why you want to have plastic surgery; JUST DO IT. It is none of his business. Sounds to me like that moocher is afraid you will be looking too hot and some wealthy, physically fit man will take you off his hands. I hope you have the surgery and I hope the wealthy, physically fit guy sweeps you away from him faster than lightening.
I had plastic surgery and it is the BEST decision I have ever made. GO FOR IT and see how much better you feel about yourself. Good Luck!
Just curious what you decided to do? I recently told my boyfriend that I want plastic surgery (an eyebrow lift, lip implant and possible rhinoplasty)and eventually planned to do it after I save up $ for it. I’m 24 and he’s 31, we’ve been together for 7 years so we are in a serious relationship. He was furious though when I mentioned it to him and said he’d break up with me if I did it. I am happy he doesn’t feel I need this, but I do and always have. I feel he should give me support for something I want to do and will make me feel better. I now feel some resent towards him for this. You at least are in a higher position that I am, where you make a lot more money han him and can support yourself without him. I am the opposite from that! So, I’m just checking to see what your outcome was and if you two are still together.